(left, another American guy with Peruvian Sweetheart)
"I can still actually make her blush at the age of 31. Try finding a 31 year old American girl who can still blush."
From "Rod" (for henrymakow.com
)As I write I am in Lima, Peru on the 6th day of my weeks vacation
visiting a friend. I was here in 2003 when I first wrote you. It has
changed drastically in 7 years. Everyone is upwardly mobile seeking that
"American" dream as fast as they can. I very rarely receive a nice look
from anybody. Much less a smile. I feel a little resentment towards me,
as I am an American. Can't put my finger on it though. I get the same
treatment whether I am with my 31 yr. old pretty girlfriend ( I am 45 )
or I am by myself. They want my money, but they don't want me.
The people don't understand. It would be like talking to a
wall trying to explain the New World Order to them. You're right Western
civilization is the only civilization that is left ( what's left of it )
that is still resisting somewhat. All the other cultures have accepted
their fate years ago and some centuries ago.
Many of the people here imitate what they see on TV. Wear the
clothes they see on Latino MTV, or what they see the TV or Movie stars
wearing. Just as in America. They don't realize the life they are giving
up is much more superior. Many are poor by western standards but when
they go downtown they wear their Sunday best. You would not know of it
to look at them that they are poor. There are 11 million people in Lima
and the unemployment rate is 25%. People will do anything to get and
keep a good job. The employers have the workers right where they want
I have lucked out and found a good girl. But it took much discerning
on my part and wasn't easy. She has good traditional values and still
has an innocence about her.
American women have been easily fooled by feminism. But the genie
is out of the bottle now, there is no getting it back in. Women will
never admit they have been sold down the river and took the bait hook,
line, and sinker.
Now I know what God meant when he said in the ancient book of
Genesis that the woman was the weaker sex. It's not just physically he
was talking about.
(I asked Rod to elaborate)
I am a long time reader of your Web page and have listened to every
episode of your once Web radio show" Male Mentoring". And have also
read your book " A Long Way To Go For Date". Actually your book was the
inspiration that gave me that extra push I needed to search for love outside my own country of the USA. I knew I wasn't happy with
American women and didn't want to have to settle for what was left to
At the age of 38 in 2003 I met a girl on a paid Website and
eventually went to see her in Lima, Peru. To my dismay she was a wannabe
Western girl in disguise. Fortunately I saw through her ruse and told
her I was not interested in marrying her.
We actually stayed in touch
writing emails from time to time. She married a Western European man 6-8
months after our split and then divorced him 2 years later after
receiving her citizenship in that country. Of course she told me she
divorced him because they were incompatible. She is a 47 year old once
hottie, but still looks good for her age. But she can't seem to grasp
that most of the men looking for foreign wives are looking for the
opposite of what an American girl is like. Not a girl wanting to be like
My second trip to South America was to Bogota, Colombia. This time
was a younger girl of 28. Very good looking, nice figure, was smart,
responsible, reliable and very trustworthy. That was something I could
rarely find if ever in an American girl. And I thought I was in love for
sure. But I had to let my brain override my heart. She had a very quick
temper and was very controlling to boot had a 11 year old son that she
tried to minimize my contact with.
It's like she was trying to get me to
fall in love with her then she would bring her son into the picture.
So, I back pedaled a little and said I did wanted to file for a fiance'
visa instead of returning to Colombia to marry her and file for the wife
visa later. That was all it took for her other side came out and that was
all I needed to see that there was no way I could live with someone like
Well they say the third time is the charm. I hope so. As I write
this letter I have just returned for a weeks vacation to Lima, Peru to
meet my girlfriend in person with whom I have been in contact with via,
email and instant messenger on MSN for 6 months.
I feel very fortunate to have finally found the girl I been
searching for for more than 7 years if not all my life. It wasn't easy.
It took a lot of discerning on my part to weed the other girls out. I
found her using the free website Latinlovesearch.com.
She is 31, never
married, no children, so, (no abortions) She has traditional values and
morals. And still has an innocence about her. An innocence you can't
even find in an American girl over the age of 15. I can still actually
make her blush at the age of 31. Try finding a 31 year old American girl
who can still blush. And at my age of 46 next month and still wanting
at least one child she is still very fertile and wants kids.
for the average 46 year old American male finding an attractive 31 year
old female with no kids, no abortions, no failed marriages. Baggage in
other words. That would want him. It's like looking for the proverbial
needle in the haystack. I thought there was
something wrong with me for many years. But I just wasn't looking in
the right places.
Guys there is a whole world out there full of single women. Don't
feel that you are stuck with what is available in your own westernized
country. I think many of us men have forgotten what it is like to be
really loved by a woman. So we have just settled for less than true love
Now I truly know what God meant when he said in the New Testament
book of 1 Peter, Ch. 3, vs. 7. Woman was the weaker vessel. God was not
just speaking physically. And in the ancient book of Genesis Eve was
deceived by the serpent. Adam ate of the fruit knowing what he was doing
was wrong. But did it for his wife. Eve was tricked. Just as modern
women are tricked to this day. Us men know they are deceived but
compromise our principles anyway just to please them. We learn early in
life not to make mommy unhappy and what mommy likes and dislikes. We do
the same with our wives and girlfriends later in life.
Nuff said. Henry. Keep up the good fight.