Media Ignores Women Cheaters
April 24, 2012
"After researching women's infidelity for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous."
-- Michelle Langely
The mass media ignores a book that blames women for marital breakups. To destabilize heterosexuals, women must always be superior, i.e. the victim.
"Woman's Virtue is Man's Greatest Invention" -- Honore de Balzac
by David
(henrymakow.com)
Michelle Langely's "Women's Infidelity: Living in Limbo" (2005) should be required reading for every male and female. It explains the behavioral patterns and sociological dynamics of female infidelity based on extensive interviews.
Both male and female readers will recognize these behavioral patterns. Michelle is not some Ivy League professor, not an echo of pc beliefs, not a media spokesperson. This makes her book more credible, and explains why it has largely went under the radar.
It is also the very reason some of her findings will resonate so well with ordinary people who have an innate sense of truth, but because of all the disinformation and programming, they cannot quite put the finger on.
Michelle states: "After researching women's infidelity for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous."
Michelle gives a predictable pattern many women's relationships follow today:
* They push for commitment
* They get what they want
* They lose interest in sex
* They become attracted to someone else
* They start cheating
* They become angry and resentful
* They begin telling their partners they need time apart
* They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after making themselves, and everyone else around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages."
Michelle states that 75% of all divorces are initiated by the female, but that the real figure could be much higher. Husbands often are unaware of the real causes of their divorce.
It takes place when the lady has finally trampled the man enough in marriage, and decides to totally mow him over in divorce. It's just like she's cashing out her chips at the casino.
I divorced my ex-wife because she was cheating with one her mother's friends. Although I filed for divorce, her infidelity was the cause.
I had lots of other reasons to divorce her, and should have long before I did. Men, especially young guys, are totally stupid.
The women never (or hardly ever) admit to their affairs, even when there is concrete evidence of multiple affairs.
The guys do not want to believe they were so stupid. It's a form of cognitive dissonance. Michelle covers all that in the book. It really is a good book without biases.
More info on Michelle's book can be found at http://womensinfidelity.com/
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Readers on Amazon.com wrote:
-- Women cheat partially for biological reasons, but that's really only a small piece of the puzzle. The author talks about the EMOTIONAL reasons women cheat. They are lied to by society before they get married. They have to lie to get married. (It's not just men!!) Then the marriage isn't perfect like they were promised. Then they have kids and feel like a beached whale. The husband is NOT supportive emotionally, withdraws from the marriage. The women feels alone and abandoned. Then one day, she notices another guy. And he notices her.
And our red pill roller-coaster ride down the rabbit hole begins.
This is the common story the author has in cases of infidelity.
-- All of women's marital infidelity is explained away as: it's hormonal and natural as women enter their sexual prime. They turn 30, more testosterone pumps into their system, they get horny, and need sex with multiple partners.
if that's what you want to hear, then read the book and you can ignore the other aspects of marriage, including communication and commitment.
The book is written as a dialog with her friend "Kevin," in which she teaches him the ways of women. The book is based on a) her personal past of infidelity and b) her interviews with cheating men and women. She's not a doctor and does not have training; she's a "professional public speaker specializing in career development."
--As I read the "stages of infidelity" described by the author mild nausea reinforced the realization that I was reading an exact description of what happened to my marriage. After awhile my wife announced that she needed to move out to "find herself" (just another stage guys). Actually it was a result of my demands that she end it with the other man or else....
As a person of faith I do not agree with all the premises that Ms. Langley proposes but I can tell you that her description of what happens, and why, was such an accurate description of my experience that it was disturbing. If really want to know what a woman means when she says "I'm not happy" you better read this.
---A complete waste of time and money. This book offers no real insight into what most people think and feel and certainly offers no real guidance or help to any persons who have been affected by an extramarital affair. Half-truths, suppositions and illogical conclusions. At times the author completely contradicts herself from one chapter to the next. I got the impression that the author was no fan of the male members of our species and in the end, offers no real solutions.
Len said (April 25, 2012):
The elite luciferian social-engineers have virtually destroyed the capacities for love & commitment among
BOTH men & women. It is, in fact, an enormous family & social catastrophe. Only a return to godly Christian values
can reverse the effects of these satanic social-engineers & their agenda.