Men Who Get Women
July 1, 2018
Fulfillment for a man comes from discovering what he was born to do, and doing it. God has given every man a mission. A man becomes a man when he finally believes in himself, and doesn't put any man or woman above him. These men don't need women, except to help them fulfill their mission. They are the real men real women want.
updated from Feb 9, 2009
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
Like a Zen Koan, men who get women don't need them and don't want them. They aren't pretending. They don't want them and they don't need them.
Test this formula in reverse. Are women attracted to men who adore them? Temporarily maybe. But ultimately, women don't want to be idealized. They want to be seen and loved for whom they really are. A real woman is somewhat passive by nature. She looks to her husband to give her purpose. So she doesn't want to be HIS purpose.
This wisdom has come too late to help me. In spite of being bright and relatively successful, I squandered my romantic life as the poster boy for needy. I was programmed by the mass media and education to regard sex and love, especially sex, as the prerequisite for my personal development. I was taught that these were the highest experiences life had to offer. In other words, I was inducted into an occult secular religion which required .... a woman.
PROGRAMMED TO FAIL
Popular occulture programmed me for failure. It taught me to idealize attractive women, to worship the "goddess" within, to "need" them to validate me. At the same time, women were programmed to think they were more unique and important than they really were.
In heterosexuality, women empower their husbands by exchanging their worldly power for his power expressed as love. (Men want power; women want love. Marriage is an exchange of the two. See my book "Cruel Hoax.") A woman does not respect a man she can control.
Attractive women were rarely portrayed in a negative light in movies or on TV. On the contrary, the rule was sex appeal = moral superiority. If an unattractive person was cast, the chances were s/he was a bad guy. (All of this is still true.) No wonder I pursued chimeras. No wonder my marriages were built on delusions.
Let's see this in a larger context: the modern world is not dedicated to realizing the intentions of the mysterious Force that created the universe. It is not based on discerning the inherent natural and moral laws that ensure our healthy development.
Rather, modern society is dedicated to the limitless greed of a tiny cabal of psychopaths. It is based on using deception and hype to cheat man and God.
A highly organized Satanic power, the Illuminati, want to suppress any notions of universal Purpose and Design. They want to demoralize and degrade the human race in order to colonize us. They are behind all Western imperialism, and now, with the NWO, imperialism is coming home to roost.
They use sex to distract people. Sex is a reproductive function. Nature gave it some charm and urgency to ensure it happened. Instead of a short mating and procreative stage, the Illuminati have turned sex into a lifelong obsession designed to make us stupid.
Most sexual perversion stems from making sex an end in itself separate from procreation, love and marriage. The trend toward promiscuity and family breakdown, portrayed as "progress," was planned by the Illuminati decades ago.
MEN WHO GET WOMEN
"So long as the love, even the smallest, of man toward woman is not destroyed, so long is his mind in bondage as the calf that drinks milk is to his mother." -Buddha
When I was young and full of religious zeal, I considered becoming a monk. I decided against it comparing myself to a hamburger cooked on only one side. As long as I craved feminine love and sex, I wasn't ready. But now I'm 68, happily married after three unsuccessful tries. Having put in countless hours of lovemaking and studying the female, I can say with confidence that sex and romance are mostly a matter of hormones and mental programming. Anonymous sex
Love grows over time when a man and woman trust each other for companionship, understanding and support. The other kind of love is worship, and that is reserved for God alone.