Women exchange power for love. Sex is symbol
of this exclusive contract. Sex is an act of domination and possession.
Women are damaged when they give themselves to a man and are then dismissed.
(Disclaimer - I am not trying to impose this template but rather to say that it has worked for centuries.
This is why the usual suspects are trying to destroy it.)
Possession is Part of Marriage
(Updated from Dec. 2009 and April 1, 2018)
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
My wife recently asked me why I loved her.
Rather than enumerate her good qualities, I answered honestly: "Because you belong to me."
At the risk of being politically incorrect, many men do not seek great beauty, brains or sex, but the simple feeling of "possessing" a woman. In other words, what they seek is a degree of ownership or power. This is part of masculine identity.
And many women have the complementary desire, to be possessed, to totally "belong" to their husband.
In a blog post, Joseph William, in his thirties, claims he has slept with 100 women and nearly all of them wanted to be dominated in bed. They wanted the man to take charge. This has a general application. Women need men to take the initiative. They acquiesce or reject.
The essence of heterosexuality is the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. This is the heterosexual contract. If a woman is not submissive or a man unloving, the contract has been broken, and they must consider separation.
When a woman surrenders to her husband, she gives him the power to grant her wishes, or not. He does not exploit, control or dominate. He respects her individuality and freedom.
He wants her to want to be his. He consults and nurtures. He makes the final decision. Every family needs a head. A creature with two heads is a monster.
We have a powerful hunger to become one with another person. Two people only can become one when a woman surrenders to her husband. This is how women love. Two people cannot become one if they have competing agendas.
The greater a woman's acceptance of her husband's leadership, the greater his love for her. When the issue of worldly power is settled, a husband's sense of self expands to encompass his wife. She becomes part of his ego. He knows that her child is his.
He loves her passionately because she has given herself to him. She has given him everything he wants.
Women were designed to crave a man's passionate and exclusive love. But feminism ensures they will never get it because it teaches them to be "independent."
In "The Power of Sexual Surrender" psychiatrist Marie Robinson writes that femininity is based on "an essential female altruism" i.e. putting husband and children first. Real women do not seek power. They seek love. They are cherished because they dedicate themselves to husband and children.
Women express love in terms of surrender, i.e. trust. She empowers her husband by submitting to him. Thus, she inspires him to sacrifice for her and their children. Women domesticate men and give them purpose.
Of course, this surrender applies only to the man she loves, the man who has courted her and won her love. If she gives her trust to the wrong man, that is her responsibility.
THE MISTAKE MEN MAKE
Women have about 20 years of peak sex appeal. They have to seal a deal before they lose it. They are the sellers. Men are the buyers.
When men treat women as sex goddesses, sex objects or prey, as society teaches, they are doomed to fail.
Men need to approach women as they are, fallible human beings with normal human desires.
They need to get to know a woman as friends and decide if they want a deeper relationship.
Women need sex but they want love (an honest human relationship) more. Take an enema and purge everything Hollywood has taught you about love and sex. It is bullshit.
Lasting love is not based on sex appeal or sparkling repartee. You can have great sex with a woman who is not conventionally beautiful. All women are beautiful in the sex act. Lasting love is based on mutual dependence.
A man must decide what he wants to do with his life, and then find a woman who will help him achieve his goal.
Because the Illuminati bankers control the media and nearly everything else, most of us are ignorant of how egregious and criminal their social engineering is.
Men are active by nature; women are passive. This is the basic yin-yang of nature. By messing with this dynamic, Illuminati social engineers (black magicians?) are throwing a spanner in the gears of human reproduction and happiness. Their promotion of homosexuality to heterosexual children is criminal. They should be charged with child abuse.
This is what Satanists do--override nature. They are evil. They hate us and we have every right to hate them and their minions (liberals) in government, education and the media.
First Comment from M in Brazil
Good post and very true; too bad its getting worst. Man and woman are lost, at least here in Brazil. I am so sick and tired of this feminist, LGBT, race theory, communist agenda, white man-enemy agendas, but unfortunately, its all over from commercials, companies, celebrities, gov. pushing this on us on every occasion.
I am glad my daughter reads this site, she can learn and have a better outcome in life than I had.
Here in Brazil, women (not all but most), have to pay half of all expenses in the household even if their husband makes 10 times more, it doesn´t matter. They have to pay their share and do most house work since men here say it's their job. What we see nowadays is no longer the sacred union between a men and woman where man treat their wives as a gift given to them by the Lord and woman reverence their husbands and give them children. Instead we are living in times where modern relationships are the norm. Because of that, what we can expect from a marriage is two colleagues living together where each person has their own lives, share their bills 50/50 and if things get too hard they'll just get a divorce and move on to the next partner as if their actions won't have consequences to their children or themselves.
Then you have good men that cannot find a Christian woman to marry because the women are not committed to the relationship nor to God. It has been hard for both good man and a good woman here. This world is definitely not what it use to be.
In my work and at my daughter's college, we see more and more incentives for women to abandon their children with strangers and go to work. From speakers to projects aiming at mothers and women, the effort to put women in their unnatural place is astonishing. At my work, I see women with high paying jobs making all the decisions in their household while their husbands stay home with their kids. And this is a difficult situation because since the feminist agenda has been active for so long, both genders are complacent in maintaining these ungodly roles.
My daughter tells me about her collage, where the girls if they want to have a boyfriend they have to pay for all their expenses on dates and this goes on into the marriage and how most people engage in premarital sex as if it's nothing but a sport. So the women have to pursue a carrier because they can't rely on men. It's truly sad where humanity is heading to.
Coincidentally, in Brazil there is a youtube channel called Casamento de Verdade (Marriage biblically) from Professor Afonso (he lives in the US now), he mentioned why its important to be submissive (women) marriage. Its was really good and all women liked it and had no problem with it. The 90 thumbs down were basically from men and not the women. In the comments, woman were complaining about having to pay the bills either 50/50 in the marriage and in some cases all of it and having to do all the house work.