Promiscuity & The Death of Love
November 9, 2010
Why women today are losing the ability to love, and how men must adjust. by Henry Makow Ph.D.
If a young woman today said she was saving her virginity for her husband, she'd be considered hopelessly old fashioned. She'd be treated with disdain, as polite society treated a whore 100 years ago.
This is a measure of the triumph of Satanism, the "religion" of the modern world, which lurks behind secularism. Not coincidentally, virgins also had to hide their purity in Bolshevik Russia.
The defining characteristic of civilization is the consecration of sex to marriage, or at the very least, love and courtship. Marriage and family are the red blood cells of a healthy society and the basis for procreation.
Satanists understand this very well. That's why they used "sexual liberation," to undermine humanity. As Giuseppe Mazzini said, "we corrupt in order to conquer."
They are like the devil. Corruption is a form of conquest. Enslavement takes the form of addiction, to sex or drugs or alcohol.
Any animal can have anonymous sex. It is human to form a permanent loving bond and raise children properly. This is why Satanists use free love to attack marriage.
FREE LOVE IS AN OXYMORON
The more sexual partners a young woman has, the less she is able to love a man. A woman's love must be exclusive. It must be focused on her husband, the father of her children. She must preserve her soul for him. That's what her body represents.
For a woman, sex is an act of self-sacrifice and surrender. By definition, it requires trust, i.e. love and devotion to one man. When she has casual sex, inevitably she is disappointed and feels used. She starts to hate men and falls victim to feminism and lesbianism.
When men were required to get married in order to have sex, women were courted and loved. Later, they were honored for their contributions as wife and mother. Far from protecting "women's rights," feminism has left women twisting in the wind.
The separation of sex from marriage, i.e. "sexual liberation," is one of the principle ways satanism has killed love.
Wanton sex has become a substitute for love. Young women now market themselves as sex partners, not wives and mothers. Men are also trained to seek sex.
"Homosexual rights" are designed to make heterosexuals behave like homosexuals. Very few homosexuals marry. Very few have children. This is the model the elite envisages for mankind.
The Illuminati want us to be isolated, alienated and tractable.
A woman who is saving herself for marriage should be commended. She is resisting social pressure ( i.e. social engineering ) and obeying her instincts instead.
LOWERING EXPECTATIONS
Through the mass media, the Illuminati brainwash us to think romantic love and sex are a universal panacea that can replace religion (God.) How many movies and songs are based on the assumption that some perfect person is going to give us our self? Woody Allen is 75 and he's still chasing this romantic chimera in his movies. This is arrested development.
People aren't meant to be loved as though they were perfect. No one is. Only God is perfect and that is where our love should be directed. As you know, I define God in terms of spiritual ideals such as truth, justice, goodness and beauty.
Especially now when fewer men and women are capable of love, we need to focus on loving God and, especially, on God's love for us.
The Illuminati have done a good job of discrediting God. He is the positive force behind Creation. He represents the inherent moral and natural design. By adhering to this design, we will be healthy and happy.
REALISTIC MARRIAGE
In olden times, men chose women for their worth as helpmates. Can she cook? Milk cows? Make clothes? They had no illusions about "soul mates." Men need to look for women who are gentle and accommodating, who have skills, character, personality and make good mothers.
Avoid promiscuous women, feminists and women who are alienated from their fathers. Avoid bean counters (women who want everything to be "equal.")
We need to take the stardust out of our eyes and realize that the importance of sex has been grossly exaggerated in order to control us.
Men are attracted to almost all fertile women. So what? That's nature's way of making sure we procreate. We don't need to be controlled by that.
In marriage, we are looking for a life-long companion. Look at old TV shows to see the traditional picture of marriage. It's not heaven. Lucille Ball and Desi Arnez; Ralph and Alice Kramden were always comically at odds. It never gets boring.
Marriage is a mutual security pact. A woman accepts her husband's leadership in return for his protection and love. Men want power; women want love. Marriage is the exchange of the two.
Your spouse is nothing like you. There's going to be disagreements. It's not necessary to think alike or feel love all the time. Many women are moody.
Just keep your bargain. Be loyal. Don't say things that will upset her.
Play your part. And over time, with mutual trust, a strong bond grows.
And if you can't find a suitable companion, you may be in luck. Thoreau, a bachelor, said, "I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude."
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Quotes on Solitude
Makow -- Possessiveness is Part of Marriage
Comments for " Promiscuity & The Death of Love "
F said (November 11, 2010):
“Your virginity is a way of screening out the idiots. It is a good test of who really loves you and who wants to use you----Henry”
Growing up, my parents always reminded us (their 5 children) of what you say above.
Thank you for reminding me now again.
Modern day humans make life so complicated...The human body, along with nature, have always been well equipped to bring civilization forward.
I defend virginity as a defensive tool...as protection....
We think that we have outsmarted virginity...looking around I see that our modern ideas have outsmarted us.
We arrogantly continue to make mistakes...like we deserve a prize for it....so that we can land a reality show or brag about how messed up our lives are...
We resort to foolish reason & rebellion against long held natural traditions that have for the most part, guided humanity successfully.
f
Gabe said (November 10, 2010):
I would like to express my agreement with what Kara writes below. We should avoid at all costs seeing things in black and white: not every woman who enters marriage (or a long-term commitment, for that matter) needs to be a virgin!
There has to be room for life experience, too - and for the possibility of making mistakes: I am sure that there are many, many men and women who have been lead down the wrong path of promiscuity -and have survived, learned from their mistakes - and moved on to more faithful, satisfying relationships all the same.
Jay said (November 10, 2010):
Thanks Henry
Your recent article was great. I was miffed at my wife this morning. I read your piece and realized what a great thing I had. I woke her up with a kiss. She's been flying high all day.
Again thanks. We forget so easily what we have in this world.
Shayne said (November 10, 2010):
The 'liberated' woman you marry may have had twenty or even fifty lovers... this is now apparently 'accepted' by males? However, consider, if your wife has had twenty lovers before you, what are the chances that you're a better lover than all twenty of them? I would guess it would be slim or non-existent. Thus when you marry the 'liberated' woman, you are virtually guaranteed to disappoint her in bed... as her mind goes back to 'Freddie' or 'Rex' or whoever gave her the best time in the sack.
What chance does that marriage have of sticking together?
Tim said (November 10, 2010):
I was extremely impressed by what you had to say on Satanism.I was a Satanist that became a Psychic that discovers Jesus Christ is real.In fact I wrote a book called A psychic discovers Jesus.I just really want to thank you for posting what you did because so many Christians in America and in England just can't imagine how intense the spiritual war is................
Maria (from Kenya) said (November 10, 2010):
Thanks for the article. I am 24 and a Virgin but I have to keep it a secret coz there is so much hatred for virgins in my county. There was even a debate on the radio about a woman who could not get a date because she was a virgin.
Many men called and said they wouldn’t date virgins because they are “inexperienced” or there is something wrong with them, “unattractive”. I have to make up lies and pretend I am not a virgin to get by.
Everyone would laugh at me if they knew the truth. I have dumped many guys because they kept requesting this. The ones I told the truth and who I thought had ‘genuine’ love for me have dumped me. I was depressed for a while but I have gained confidence that there is some guy out there who will respect my virginity.
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Maria
Your virginity is a way of screening out the idiots. It is a good test of who really loves you and who wants to use you.
henry
Mark said (November 10, 2010):
More men now are finally saying they have had enough and are silently fighting the feminist agenda tooth and nail, shunning the career women and feminists....however unfortunately a new breed of 'feminist liberation' has taken on a promiscuous whore image.... which is a bastardization of the original feminist ideal, so that the only exercise of 'empowerment' left is self-denigration, to expose oneself as a whore, as another right and/or rite of passage in the minds of the duped... little do these women realize that you cannot mandate or manipulate the genetic makeup of the human species in a few short decades.
The result of the madness is literally the death of marriage and relationship among the genders...for many men have opted to not marry and to seek self gratification in the easy pickings of the never ending supply of whores now in the Western world...who have made themselves this way....and those young girls who thought they were sold the Golden Apple were actually sold the Highway to Hell...its too late.
The millions of barren wombs out there who have opted out of motherhood, self sacrifice, marriage and fidelity are mere tools for the Illuminist population reduction goals, and sadly some seem to be okay with it.... almost like sheep endorsing the Wolf. Truly a sad state for humanity and a swift fall from Grace for the fairer of the two sexes, once regarded as a "lady" is now a tramp..often with a stamp and other body jewelry to signify her transcendence from mere mortal woman....to goddess...empowered, bold and brazen..her wild eyes full of lust, fueled by Satan's powerful hold.... if men would simply turn their backs on these women it would end quickly.
Alan said (November 10, 2010):
Henry I GOT It on Promiscuity & Death of Love article - so much after 28 years of marriage and 5 kids. My wife who can be my adversarial at times always comes around and we help each other see the other point of view. I sent this to her last night and she agreed with it.
If the first two responders "didn't get it" it's because THEY DID, it's called conviction followed by denial or acceptance, sometimes the TRUTH hurts.
Kara said (November 10, 2010):
I just wanted to let you know i read your article on promiscuity and the death of love. Now i will tell you thats a little misleading. What do you say to the woman who has given her love like me many times only to have my heart ripped out. If it wasn't for men hurting all the time we wouldn't feel the need to replace love with sex.
I stayed with a man for eight years the father of my kids only to find out he was never truely divorced and had been cheating on me from day one. Oh and i was gonna leave him for an old flame of mine we were even gonna move from michigan to texas and he was gonna go to work for my dad but then a month after i give him my dads personal cell number to give my dad his info he stopped talking to me and then a month after that he gave me the talk that he doesn't mean to be crass but that he needs an independent woman.
But then 3 months later come to find out it was because of another woman. So stop saying women dont want love because we do,but everytime we do love someone or even say we love someone its basically shoved up our asses. As far as me i have a shield of protection around my heart and its very hard for men unrelated to get in which could be happening with the rest of the women cause once especially a woman is hurt so much they try and build a shield of protection over their hearts and everytime they are hurt it gets harder to trust thus the shield becomes thicker with each blow. But women also do feel the need to have sex as well. Me personally i want nothing more than to love and be loved back.
Chris said (November 10, 2010):
Man your losing it re: promiscuity …..
Your writing is fanatical now to the point you sound nuts and I agree with ½ of it !
Write THEN drink before you make us males look like the media portrays
What are you a double agent?
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Thanks Chris,
I'm perfectly sober and saying what my intuition is telling me.
best wishes
h
Henry Makow is the author of A Long Way to go for a Date. He received his Ph.D. in English Literature from the University of Toronto. He welcomes your feedback and ideas at
George said (March 3, 2011):
I see so very many hopeless little sluts shuffling about these days, all tattoos and piercings everywhere possible giving ingress to STDs, all mandatory cell-phones and cigarettes, all hopes of even some dreams of love, of something brighter, already devastatingly dashed by early experience, forever trying in vain in a useless attempt to find some favour with young guys, also already jaded who take what the girls give for granted, in acquiescing to more and greater kinky demands and ultimately both sexes facing a hopeless future without even each other to cling to .... the Globalist NWO has surely ruined what it could ruin and sometimes I feel this is really the ultimate battle between Good and Evil, even though I ceased long ago to be religious ...