Richard said (March 2, 2013):

As a young man I had a real battle with my sex drive but turning to Jesus I asked for His help. Briefly it was that love, joy and peace come from Him not women. When we see an attractive woman we should praise God because that is the way God made them. This brings the light of the Gospel into the situation which drives away the demons and doesn't denigrate women.

It is interesting to me that Satan degrades women by associating their beauty with the negative rather than a recognition of His handiwork. Both men and women have have responsibility here but God wants people to experience His blessing and personal intimacy in marriage.

Pagans blame women for sexual attractiveness and use the handiwork of God to degrade and blame women. El Shaddai means the "Almighty multi-breasted one" in Gen 17:1 which is God's way to counteract the Ashterah of the Canaanites.

God wants intimacy and commitment in our relationship with Him as well as in marriage. The Ashterah was about lust and sex which destroys relationships but not love and is the oldest Satanic trick and greatly damaged Israel. Satan attacks where God wants to bless.

Hector said (March 2, 2013):

Porn is poison for men and one of the reasons there are many demotivated people around, along with masturbation, a real damnation that for many of years of my adolescence tormented me.

However most of the female commenters are just hypocrites. Why would you ask? While these women point correctly the error and heinous sin of these men who have fallen into the porn trap and are or were addicted to it, I am pretty sure that, as most women they are entangled to the female porn, aka romantic novels and movies that set expectations well beyond the realm of possibility, are addicted to social networks that give a false sense of value due to having hundreds or thousands of "male friends" providing attention, or were not even virgin before marriage, ergo, with their capability for real love either greatly damaged or completely destroyed.

These women, actually the majority of them, especially those that call men idiots are the perfect example of the "Christian feminists" (deb amongst others) and the reason why most "Christian" girls are to be avoided.

Monica said (March 2, 2013):

Normally I don't comment on discussions of this sort, but I protest that James (below) likes to advocate men avoid responsibility for their actions by blaming testosterone, how women dress, advertisers, movie makers etc. He sounds like Adam in the Garden of Eden who went so far as to even blame God for his misdeed by saying, "It's that woman YOU put here with me!".

Anthony Migchels is neither eunuch or milquetoast, if you actually READ his article. It sounds to me rather like sour grapes because Anthony has become master of his lower nature (through a great deal of dedicated effort to become a man he could respect, and at no small cost to himself) whereas James refuses to believe it's even possible to try, thus the string of ready excuses. So it's difficult! Now there's a surprise! It's even more difficult when you build up the mountain and excuse yourself from taking the first step to try to climb it!

The true nature of mankind is intellectual, with a powerful will, make no mistake about that! This will is the primary target of Illuminati attack and their well aimed missiles drag mankind to his lowest, carnal nature and keep him there. James implies that with enough hormones it is impossible to withstand those attacks, so why not just resign yourself to living off the porn they dole out and admit your defeat. Heck, he even justifies it! Sounds like intellectual milquetoast eunuch to me!

Bryan said (March 2, 2013):

That's a sad story. I lean a little with Duane's comments, essentially. Stick with him if possible. Give him a chance to man up, and stop telling him about himself. He's probably all too well aware by now.

Tim said (March 2, 2013):

Dear Henry, I have noticed a lot of your articles deals with homosexuality and pornography. Satan has certainly been successful in turning this world into Sodom and Gomorrah.

But I want to give hope to those who are bound up by Satan to these things. There is a cure! 99% of homosexuality is caused by demons who have been placed there by homosexual acts, either voluntary or involuntary. Notice how there are many accounts of boys being 'turned' into homosexuals by predator priests and pedophiles. Well that is because of the powerful demons who have been placed into those boys by that act. Think about it, why would once straight boys, after being molested, then turn into homosexuals, and desire to keep doing those filthy acts, if it wasn't for those demons that are now in them creating these homosexual urges.

In the book by Rebecca Brown MD, 'He Came To Set The Captives Free', she explains about these 'doorways' that give demons legal right to come into our lives. There are many such doorways, such as some demonic games, tarot card readings, and anything to do with horoscopes, drugs and alcohol a doorway to let demons of addiction into our lives, etc. But some of the most powerful demons are sexual, and especially so with homosexuality.

But there is hope, personally Rebecca has delivered homosexuals from their demons, and therefore cured them. But I don't think you even need someone to deliver you. If you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, who came to this world and died for us, and CONFESS to him your sins, and ADMIT your guilt, and the fact that you can do NOTHING without him, he will forgive your sins and deliver you from the demons which control you. Jesus has said, "ask and you shall receive" and "if we CONFESS our sins he (Jesus) is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

You know, it's a struggle to over come, especially sexual thoughts. But try this, next time you are tempted by thoughts of lust or adultery, or tempted to turn on some internet porn, instead, kneel down, and ask Jesus to help you overcome. Ask him out load, reverently, and with faith. Just see what happens! Try it, you will be pleasantly surprised. Jesus has given us power over the enemy. "Behold I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you." Luke 10:19. Those of you who are tempted by lustful thoughts, tempted to do self abuse etc, why don't you command the demons of lust to depart from you in the name of Jesus Christ. Rebuke them out LOAD, (because they cannot read your thoughts), and just see what happens! again, you will be pleasantly surprised. You will get peace, and those thoughts will leave you. Most Christians don't realize just how much power we have under Christ. Lets use that power against the enemy!

It's wonderful to be FREE, free from Satan's bondage, free from the lusts of the flesh. But the warfare is tough and it is a spiritual battle for your mind. It's a wonderful thought knowing that you CAN have the victory if you WANT it, by just asking Jesus for the help. It's a matter of WANTING to gain the victory.

James said (March 2, 2013):

There are all kinds of testosterone levels, from milquetoast to raging bull. Easy for a milquetoast to tell a raging bull to control himself. The testosterone counts of most young men are on the high side, and many don't get enough whoopee. Thus their 24 hour preoccupation with boobs and asses. A high testosterone count is not easy to contain. Not impossible, but with porn everywhere it's that more difficult. The evil porn producers/manipulators exploit precisely that weakness.

There is only one remedy to get rid of the preoccupation: more sex, commensurate with the count. Since that is not happening in many cases, our society is the way it is. Very simple. It leads men to develop and keep a mental preoccupation long after their testosterone counts have come down.

Sermons from milquetoasts or eunuchs are no help. They don't have a clue what they are talking about. Only elder men who were raging bulls once can see the full spectrum. But not all admit it. Was it an elderly Diogenes who said that only after physically losing the demon lust was he finally able to think completely clearly?

Not that anyone should be blamed for his low count, nature produces all kinds. But being (lucky?) enough not to be born with a raging bull nature, let them at least look a little farther than their own personal limitations.

Richard said (March 2, 2013):

One reason we males are sex-crazed is that we are constantly bombarded with powerful sexual stimuli, most of which comes from sources that would not commonly be considered "porn".

Banning porn would accomplish little without banning nearly all advertising, television programming, and Hollywood movies, which would be a good idea for other important reasons as well as reducing sex obsession.

Sophocles said (March 2, 2013):

Plato: The Republic, Book 1, 329C.

'How about your service of Aphrodite, Sophocles; is your natural force still unabated?' And he replied, 'Hush, man, most gladly have I escaped this thing you talk of, as if I had run away from a raging and savage beast of a master.' I thought it a good answer then and now I think so still more. For in very truth there comes to old age a great tranquility in such matters and a blessed release. When the fierce tensions of the passions and desires relax, then is the word of Sophocles approved.

Brian said (March 2, 2013):

Good article. I like how Anthony gets right to the heart of things

But there's one passage where I think some women readers may misunderstand where he's coming from:

"If it wasn't for their womb and tunnel of love, women would be no better than 2nd class men."

Now, as a man, I get it. But in the interest of turnabout is fair play, I would add this:

"If it wasn't for their sperm and tower of power, men would be no better than 2nd class women!

Robbie said (March 1, 2013):

You state: “Nowadays it is commonplace to read in 'news'papers and magazines that 'men think of sex every 2 seconds”

Rubbish !!! Let me tell you what men think of most of the time, how to pay the Gas bill, Rent or mortgage, Electricity bill, Food bill, Clothes bill, and how to pay for the Petrol or Diesel.

Your “Men think of sex every 2 seconds” is in the same league as “1 in 4 women are raped.”

Henrique said (March 1, 2013):

Great intervention by A. Migchels! Finally a man that has his head in the right place. I was watching with disgust your last article and how it was turning out, the ganging up on the woman without any empathy, just based on their own frustrated life experiences, and worst of all, the APOLOGY of the very tool used to the extreme to demoralize and destroy the biggest enemy the conspiracy has on the face of the Earth - US, heterosexual men. I do feel somewhat sorry for those guys who suffered in the hands of greedy women and all that ( if those stories can even be completely trusted, for all we hear is one side) and I even have to admit that it's closer to me than anything, for my parents relationship was also what you could call a disgrace that ended up in divorce.

But instead of grieving it forever and caving in to the system, surrendering to self-piety and complicity, and maybe growing up to become the next pimp-superstar, I kept believing in high morality and today I believe in it more with every day that passes, even not being religious ( morality has nothing to do with religion when it comes down to it. in my opinion ).

And I indeed had everything AGAINST me, for I'm from one of the ( I actually consider THE ) most hyper-sexualized country in the world - about everything here is soft-porn at least; the other day I was zapping and saw, in a Catholic channel, a middle-aged show host ( not ugly, BTW ) wearing a mini-skirt. I wish it was a joke, but it isn't.

In order to destroy families, you need to hyper-sexualize society; Russel, Kinsey, Freud, Adorno-Horkheimer-Marcuse and a host of other icons of the Brotherhood dedicated their whole lives to degrade and diminish morality and culture to reach this goal. As Alan Watt says, we're the most studied species on the planet, and they surely worked hard to distort our nature and everything around us. High morality, honor, intellect; these things are actually closely related, and they're worth killing and dying for. Long live sanity!