For most people, the idea of reserving sex
for marriage is a quaint
and nearly incomprehensible idea.
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
When I was a teenager in the 1960's, society still believed that sex was something reserved for marriage.
Around that time, we were bombarded with propaganda that taught that prohibiting extramarital sex was prudish and life-denying. This was part of a larger Communist social engineering program designed to destroy the institution of marriage. The pendulum now has swung to this satanist extreme where anonymous extramarital sex (hooking up, fuck-buddy, booty call) has been normalized.
We have passed the point where, for most people, the idea of reserving sex for marriage is a quaint and nearly incomprehensible idea.
I am not here to advocate that we do reserve sex for marriage because often it is impractical. (I do think sex belongs to serious courtship and a longterm loving relationship.) However, those quaint religious restrictions contain great wisdom that cannot be ignored without negative consequences.
1. Female nature. More than anything, healthy heterosexual women want to be loved by a man, their husband. They want to his Goddess. They want to be possessed by him. Sex is a form of woman worship. When a man "makes love" to his wife, (yes, it used to be called that) he is basically paying homage to her beauty and importance to him. Sex is an act of love.
During intercourse, most women's faces become very beautiful, as if nature has blessed this act. Sex is obviously a rite of marriage as a man cannot really "make love" to a woman he doesn't know or love. What these men and women are really doing is masturbating. This is what sexual intercourse has become.
2. In The Psychology of Women (1944) psychiatrist Helene Deutsch said women are governed by a combination of masochistic and narcissistic instincts. For sacrificing themselves to husband and children, (masochism), they want to be adored as Goddesses (i.e. narcissism.) It is her masochism that makes a man love a woman. How many men love their wives for what she has put up with from him?
When she sacrifices her ego and self-interest, she becomes part of him, his companion and support. This is how two people become one. As I have said, women trade power for love.
3. A loving husband is not a sadist. His healthy natural reaction is to want her to love being his. Thus, he does everything to nurture, empower and respect her independence, views, and desires without pandering. He loves her.
The Masonic Jewish (Illuminati) mass media is full of propaganda about women who have been betrayed and exploited by men. This is expected from Satanists dedicated to destroying marriage and enslaving humanity. But marriage has withstood the test of time because men and women know instinctively that it is an exchange of woman's power for man's love.
Women become feminine when they sacrifice power for love. The more power they cede, the more love they get. Sex is an act of domination and possession. Therefore it must be reserved for marriage where a woman's vulnerability is protected.
The Illuminati have taught women to seek power instead of love. Seek career not family. "Men are oppressors." Since masculinity is defined by power, the effect is to neuter both sexes. As a consequence, many women can't give themselves to a man. That's what love is. That's what makes a man love a woman.
I see these forlorn "independent" women everywhere, some obese, some still presentable, some carving out a relationship with another woman. They ate the apple, the poisonous communist satanist apple.
Thanks to communist brainwashing, they will never know the joy and fulfillment of marital love and sex as God and nature intended.
Afternote- Consecrating sex for marriage is an ideal that really enhances the importance of marriage. But, I am afraid many people would rush into marriage for sex alone.