Getting Sex Under Control
December 18, 2011
Most men don't realize how victimized they are by their obsessive compulsive sex drive.
They regard the mating ritual as life's greatest gift, rather than a colossal, self-defeating waste of energy. Contrary to what we are taught by our cult-ure, men don't need a woman or sex "to become a man."
By Henry Makow Ph.D.
(Originally "The Treadmill of Sex and Romance," March 2006, this is a core article that has been updated and revised.)
At 62, I am no longer of draft age. I'm referring to the press gang of nature. I am no longer needed to father a child.
I know this because my sex drive is not what it used to be. I can "perform" but I don't need to. Far from being alarmed, I am relieved.
As the hormonal fog dissipates, I have moments of clarity that I'd like to share with younger males still on the treadmill of sex and romance.
After survival, the reproductive urge is our most powerful natural instinct.
Most men don't realize how victimized they are by this instinct. They regard the mating ritual as life's greatest gift, rather than a colossal, self-defeating waste of energy. When they are attracted to a female, they rarely think, "Oh, nature is conspiring to have me propagate the species."
Instead, they are fascinated, even awe-struck, by any comely young (i.e. fertile) female, regardless of her character, personality, ability or intelligence. They invest her with great mystery and authority; and usually she won't disabuse them.
POPULAR CULT - URE HOAX
Contrary to what we are taught, men don't need a woman "to become a man."
Like so many things we idolize, Gertrude Stein's comment about Oakland applies. "There's no there there." Popular Cult-ure is peddling a hoax.
Jung said that when you take God away, men create false Gods.
Our Illuminati masters have programmed us to recoil at the word "God".
They created a false, simplistic and easily discredited image. God never was a dotty old man who lets evil triumph.
He is the Spirit of Perfection that partly dwells within us. Love is the desire of our spirit to return to the whole. All love is a love of God, i.e. Perfection (truth, beauty, goodness, justice, bliss, harmony.) God's Will cannot be done unless men (and women) do it. God is not responsible for evil. Men (and women) are.
The Illuminati used movies and music to make us seek sex and romance in place of God. They promote sex because they want to define us by our physical desires alone.
Romantic love is a form of idolatry caused by this sublimated religious urge. The lust-object is "Perfect."
Nor is there anything mystical about sex (divorced from love.) Sexual attraction is mostly about reproduction.
Thanks to porn and the mass media, we are addicted to sexual and romantic memes. We suffer from a psychosis, a mental aberration, a collective pathology. We are fixated on sex, "possessed" in occult terms.
WOMEN ARE NOT A MAN'S FIRST PRIORITY
A woman is peripheral to a man who knows his business, and subconsciously women know this. They shun men who put them on a pedestal.
The romantic inflation of woman causes arrested development in males. (This is why Illuminati media empower and idealize women.) Any man who thinks he cannot live without any particular woman is destined to remain a child. He is looking for himself in the wrong place.
A young man should choose a wife who will help him achieve his goals. One of these goals should be a family. Children are projections of us into the future. They are our offering to God, an Act of Faith. The young man should find a woman who complements him and is easy to live with.
Subconsciously, women want men who serve God. Men (and women) were created to be God's agents. We know God by doing His will, by serving Him through our actions. Women serve God by serving husband and children and are loved, honored and served in return. When women serve themselves, they end up alone and bitter.
THE EROSION OF CIVILIZATION
The hallmark of civilization is the limitation of sex to love and marriage. This humanizes sex and encourages the formation of families, which are essential to the success of society.
The alternative is "free love" where man is essentially a dog and woman a fire hydrant. Throughout my life, I was taught that the dog-fire hydrant approach (sex for its own sake) is actually worthwhile and profound, that orgasms are mystical and self-control ("repression") causes neurosis. Woody Allen summed it up: "For an empty experience, sex is the best there is."
Lets put this conflict in historical perspective. As recently as 45 years ago, our sexual mores were governed by religious principles. In 1960, there was still a social stigma against illegitimate children. I don't favor unkindness toward anyone but this stigma was removed by a powerful force determined to destroy the institution of the family.
We shriek at the position of women in Saudi Arabia but in Chicago in 1912, a woman could be fined for showing too much leg. Ben Hecht recalls that the police arrested women for "smoking cigarettes, for shopping without their corsets on...for using profanity...for wearing slacks and shorts, for kissing in public, for wearing a man's hat, for sitting alone in a cafe or drinking in a saloon, for driving an automobile without a male in attendance, for putting too much paint on their faces or cutting their hair too short." (A Child of the Century, p.47)
This is a reminder that our civilization was founded on Christian values. These proscriptions were extreme and needed reform but they had a sound basis. They were designed to channel women into the role of wife and mother as opposed to sexual commodities.
The forces that removed these taboos also denigrated the role of wife and mother and turned women into public utilities. Deprived of their natural role, many young women are in crisis, binging on drugs, alcohol and sex.
These occult forces are gradually inducting us into their sex cult without our knowledge. "Secular" is transition stage to their satanic. The "freedom" they trumpet is freedom from the self-discipline necessary to follow our operating manual and grow healthy and happy.
Until we recognize that mankind is in the grip of a powerful satanic force, we will remain defenseless. Elite social engineers are waging an undeclared war on society. By subverting gender roles, and separating sex from marriage and procreation, they hope to divert, degrade, sedate and control us.
Related - "Managing the Male Sex Drive"