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Homosexual Adoption is Child Abuse

March 4, 2009

by Henry Makow Ph.D.

If I were a lawyer, I'd make a specialty of suing the nine Canadian provinces and 15 States that allow same-sex adoption. My clients would be young adults whose lives were destroyed because these jurisdictions ignored their innate heterosexuality. I would wager that this arrogant flouting of nature will cost hundreds of millions in restitution.

Google "coming out"  and compare the resources available to young would-be homosexuals with the callous indifference to innocent heterosexual children who don't have necessary heterosexual role models at home and don't know what's wrong.

The most outrageous example of this Bolshevik denial of gender differences is the story of David Reimer who was raised as a girl because his genitals were deformed in a botched circumcision.

This stealth war on heterosexuals (disguised as woman's and gay rights) is designed to destabilize society in advance of the New World Order. The destruction of the nuclear family has long been the Illuminati Communist goal. They wish to make arrested development (homosexuality) the new norm. Lesbianism is the hidden agenda of feminism. Marriage and family are essential to our natural development. But, despite the deceitful propaganda, most male homosexuals don't want marriage or children. They want sex.

See this 1969 document from Rockefeller-funded "Planned Parenthood" which plots to promote homosexuality and feminism so as to decrease US fertility. (Berelson-Jaffe Chart)

Because promoting homosexuality is the elite Agenda, the research on same-sex parenting is highly politicized. Thus, we have numerous nonsensical claims that homosexual parenting is as good for the child or better than a stable heterosexual marriage. Here is a study that actually claims that more than half of gay men want to have children! It says that in 2007, an estimated two million GLB people were interested in adopting. An estimated 65,500 adopted children were living with a lesbian or gay parent. More than 16,000 adopted children are living with lesbian and gay parents in California, the highest number among the states. Gay and lesbian parents are raising four percent of all adopted children in the United States.

I'm not saying that none of these parents have merit. I am saying that it is wrong to place heterosexual children with homosexual parents.


stefanowicz.jpegPerhaps it is too soon to hear from the victims of same-sex placements. But a young woman, Dawn Stefanowicz, whose father was a homosexual, has published a book, "Out from Under-The Impact of Homosexual Parenting."  I haven't read it but a review by Real Women of Canada indicates her father, who died of AIDS in 1991, acted as feared:

[Her father] failed utterly in protecting and affirming her both as a person, and as a woman. Instead her father, who was himself the product of a drunken abusive father and who was sexually and physically abused many times as a child, spent his entire life looking for a father figure himself who would love, affirm and attend to him. That is, he longed for and sought to obtain male companionship and love through his gay lifestyle to meet his own emotional needs. In so doing, he failed to provide attention and affection for his wife and children who were left to cope alone. Unfortunately, Dawn's mother was an ineffective and submissive person who was overwhelmed with her own neediness, and did little to help her children in their agony.

Dawn's father brought a succession of lovers into the home where his sexual acts were often carried out and which Dawn sometimes witnessed...Dawn was forced by her father to watch sexually perverse and violent TV [videos]...

The lesson learned from the book is that the homosexual demand for the "right" to adopt children or bring them into the same-sex relationship by way of medical technology on the basis that they are supposedly equally good parents as heterosexuals, is a fraud. Vulnerable children need both a father and a mother to love and protect them. They should not be used as instruments of social experimentation by narcissistic needy individuals who seek their sexual gratification and their identities outside the traditional family. (Reality, Jan-Feb. 2009, p 10)

Although she is Canadian, the Canadian media has sandbagged her book. (In contrast, conservative outlets in the US and Australia have interviewed her.) The taxpayer-funded CBC spews pro same-sex parenting propaganda and is not expected to be "balanced." But Stefanowicz is told to give the "other side of the story." It's a case of, my belief is free speech and your belief is "hate."  The truth is that "balanced" is when both sides are allowed to be heard.


zackstory.jpgThe most common type of same sex parenting is by two lesbians. Dr. Dean Byrd, a psychiatrist testified that the "research clearly demonstrated that lesbian mothers had a feminizing effect on their sons and a masculinizing effect on their daughters. Boys raised by lesbian mothers behaved in less traditionally masculine ways, and girls, particularly adolescent and young girls raised by lesbian mothers, appear to have been more sexually adventurous and less chaste."

A picture is worth a thousand words. Look at Zack (left) a boy raised by two mommies.

Dr. Byrd continued, "Children learn about male and female differences through parental modeling. The parental, mother-father relationship provides children with a model of marriage--the most meaningful, enduring relationship that the vast majority of individuals will have during their lives."

Girls need their father's approval to affirm their femininity and to eventually establish a bond with a man. Boys also need their father's example to grow into strong independent men capable of leading families. All of this, the Bolshevik Masonic globalists are out to sabotage.

Society is in the grip of a long-term satanic conspiracy masquerading as "progressive" which is attempting to concentrate all wealth in the hands of the central bankers and their allies. They are re-engineering the human race to serve them in a neo feudal world order.

This is the real "hate" and we won't be fooled or coerced.


Related- "Canada Redefines Marriage"

Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

Comments for "Homosexual Adoption is Child Abuse"

Glenn said (March 7, 2009):

Nb:/ I was adopted at birth. I struggled with my own identity issues until I found my natural parents at age 36. Thank God, my adoptive parents weren't gay.

In an article I stumbled across this morning written by Eric Snow entitled " The Life Cycle of Empires and America's Destiny ", Eric writes 3/4 down the page:

'...In a process that he has dubbed "sexual suicide," the sociologist George Gilder in "Men and Marriage" describes how the feminist values presently enshrined in our culture lead to demographic decline. For as women increasingly feel the need to both bring home the bacon and to fry it up in a pan, the men correspondingly feel useless and feel free to neglect more their family and work responsibilities '.

This is no conspiracy theory - this is conspiracy fact; The Elite are mass brain washing all of us to ' adopt ' ( no pun intended ) Feminist/Homosexual values as a means to further control us because no human being of strong, healthy moral fibre who posses sufficient backbone, would never take this blantant attack on our sexual identity laying down.

There is well documented evidence of the spiritual bond between Mother and Child, that when broken, shortly after birth.greatly effects the child's spiritual development. To allow gay people to raise our children, is like taking a rocket launcher to a fist-fight; The chance of that child ever growing up fully developed from a spiritual standpoint, is close to nil.

Victoria said (March 6, 2009):

I wanted to write and tell you how much I enjoy your website. The information you convey is invaluable and has helped me to make sense of many of the things happening in the larger world.

About 5 months separates us in age and I even vaguely recall being impressed by your "Ask Henry" column in the (I seem to recall) Toronto Telegram when you (and I) were 12 years old. My ensuing 5 decades of life have brought me to many of the same conclusions as yourself but your informative website has filled in some of the missing gaps.

As the mother of three young people (a girl and two boys), I am particularly concerned with the indoctrination and misinformation regarding sex that they have been fed through the public school system. For instance, when my younger son was in Grade 9, at around the time of the anniversary of the Mark Lepine shooting in Montreal, the school used an assembly for something called TAP (Teacher Advisory Program) to inflict upon impressionable young teenagers the propaganda that all males are violent by nature (the infamous Andrea Dworkin claimed that 'no women is ever safe with any man at any time', working on the feminist theory that all males are potential rapists) and all females are victims of the brutes. What a terrible message to be giving to young people, especially when it is backed up by the authority of 'the System'.

I asked my husband to complain to the school on behalf of males and especially, his son but he, being English and a baby-boom male was too well cowed to want to do anything. So, instead, I complained - but to a male principal who refused to take responsibility for the fact that there was anything wrong with such abuse and who immediately passed me on to the female teacher who was behind the production. Naturally, as a woman who has belatedly bought into the messages of feminism, she, too, refused to concede that there was anything wrong with her abuse of the trust parents have vested in her to teach their children in an unbiased way. The worst part is that there is absolutely no one who will take ultimate responsibility because, in the manner of communism, 'responsibility' has been spread so thinly amongst the controllers that none of them is willing to stick their necks out and, in fact, wouldn't even see that there was a problem in the first place.

Your article about Bella Dodd helped me to understand how all of this has been brought about. You must know, too, about Charlotte Iserbyt and John Taylor Gatto, not to mention the video interview of Norman Dodd done by Edward G. Griffin that helps to explain the background to all of this manipulation. Like yourself, I am a believer in conspiracy and because of it, have had a lot of problems with my husband and children, all of whom want to believe we live in a world that just happens by chance - that no one is ever responsible for their actions or, in fact, ever plans them. Like your son does with you, they accuse me of using 'conspiracy-theories' as an excuse for having not achieved greatness in my life. As the financial world begins to crumble before our eyes, and the proof of conspiracy becomes ever more obvious I am hopeful that they will begin to wake up to what is going on but, in the meantime, I'm not holding my breath.

Wide awake folks are in such scarce supply that it often gets very lonely. Perhaps our day is coming, though. More and more people seem to be starting to realize that something about society isn't quite right and someday soon, they are going to begin asking the questions to which people such as ourselves will have the answers.

Pete said (March 5, 2009):

Did you hear the one about the grandparents who were considered too old (46 & 53) to look after the children of a heroin addict daughter so instead the children were seized by social services and be given to a same sex couple?

Sounds like the pre-amble to some sick joke doesnt it?


It just makes your blood boil doesnt it? It makes me feel so angry I have to get up and walk about.

Keep up the good work

Michael said (March 5, 2009):

"But, despite the deceitful propaganda, most male homosexuals don't want marriage or children. They want sex"

Henry....despite the fact that you are right about the propaganda this particular point is incorrect.

It is true that gay men want sex like most humans do but in our case it is a bonding type ritual and no I am not saying that fathers should molest their sons.

As a matter of fact this is the very core of what homosexuals are disempowered men ..hence we try as best we can to empower each other ...yeah it's arguably disgusting to you heterosexual men but then again you are hetero right? and we are not.

I would also like to take a second to play the blame game which realy isnt a game at all and point out that you suposed straight men giving into each and every demand your wife gives you and neglecting your sons and doughters has been the mechanism of our creation.

Choosing the pussy over all else is what has done this and now we are all being punished. If you men could only realised that your future was being stolen from you.

Im sick and tired of hearing how we will be the end of humanity and such as if we were lurking around a corner for thousands of years or something just waiting to destroy everything.
What it comes down to is we are the result of the destruction of your heritage.

You can see where problem came from a malformation in the christian religion. The christian religion was meant to keep this from occurring by keeping men at the head of the family so the children would emulate the father especially the boys. But now Christianity makes Men and women complete equals so surprise surprise.

It's the womens initiative to create change (disobey or maybe greed like Eve in the so called Garden) so the problem begins there but the men should not be so quick to "hearken unto the voice of their wives"

You could change this issue with the truth.



I agree with you and emphasize that I am not blaming homosexuals. As you point out so well, we are all subject to the same social engineering.


Tina said (March 5, 2009):

I agree with Dr. Byrd's research regarding girls needing their father's approval to affirm their femininity and boys needing their father's example to become men however the fact is, most women were raised by a father and mother and most women are still looking for validation from men because the father failed his daughter in giving her the sort of validation she won't crave when she becomes an adult, as seen today everywhere. Thus having lesbians raising daughters or sons is certainly not what God intended, as God did not intend for men to relinquish his role either, as he did in the Garden of Eden, when Eve disobeyed God.

We live in very sick times Henry and all of it could have been avoided only if we would have respected each others roles bestowed on us by God. There is no going back and the future, quite frankly, looks grim, unless you believe in the Kingdom of God, which I do.

Sheri said (March 5, 2009):

The story of despair of Mr. Reimer was a little different than the one you have there. The story as I remember it was that he killed himself just after his brother killed himself. The two brothers had both been molested and forced to perform acts on each other as just babies, young children. The mutilated one as a female his brother the male. This abuse and their suffering at the hands of these cruel perverts went on for years.

When the brother that had been raised as the boy he was came to understand that infact his brother was not a girl..he went over the cliff as well. Evil stalks the land of the naive. This all seemed orchestrated to me right from the start. The Mother had to have had a brain the size of a pea or she was a whole lot off her rocker as well. He actually forgave her.

These poor pitiful brothers aren't suffering anymore... we can feel relief in knowing that. It's a story and tragedy that you never forget...just too horrific.

Pray hard for America!! Beast and demons really do exist.

John said (March 5, 2009):

Mr. Makow: I do appreciate the fact that you speak your mind, and you are indeed correct that:

"Vulnerable children need a father and a mother to love and protect them. They should not be used as instruments of a social experimentation by narcissistic
needy individuals who seek their sexual gratification and their identities outside
the traditional family."

Right. so, you mean, as in: strip clubs, adultery, child abuse, wife beating, incest, prostitution, abandonment, failure to pay for child support - just to name a few?

Sure sounds balanced to me. And, by the way, real males - homosexual OR heterosexual - don't need to be saved.



I thought the other side was doing an adequate job of trumpeting the imperfections of heterosexuals.


Jens said (March 4, 2009):

I just would like to thank you for all the informative articles that you got on website. They have really made me understand much more clearly what is going on in the world, and how the powers that be have been working to destroy the family and social fabric of society.

I am myself from Sweden, a country where they have really gone to town regarding destruction of the family already in the 60s and 70s. My own parents separated early on and I did not have a father figure in my life to mentor me. I have not understood the profound impact that has had on me and my life until now when I am already a grown man 40 years old.

On top of that there is the semi-communist social system in Sweden that is at war with men, taking away employment for men, creating rifts between men and women, painting men as abusive and ignorant, the list goes on... I was for a long time in confusion, but I can now see clearly what is going on around me, that makes it easy to deal with oppressive system we live under. Knowledge is power.

Keep up the good work.

Starner said (March 4, 2009):

First, I'll concede that gay couples that want to marry and have kids (which is a heterosexual, religious thing) most likely have issues they need to work out in trying to be something they aren't. Being gay isn't about sex and it shouldn't be about mimicking the behavior of the hets. It is about whom you find attractive and prefer to spend a large portion of your personal time with. At times, your reactionary statements towards gays proves you have much to learn. The NWO is pitting the hets and gays against each other. There isn't a "movement" from the top to force everyone to be is all about conflict to them. So while hets and gays are busy fighting over who has rights to adobt, marry and be left to their own business, the elites are sodomizing both of you. Same thing with this whole racist and PC movement. The population is manipulated into supporting or opposing an idea that is not their own and once the opinion is implanted, then the chains are set loose on the two go at each other while the NWO gets away with whatever it wants. This whole sexuality thing shouldn't be an issue AT ALL and it wouldn't be if the hets would have left the gays alone and if the gays wouldn't have gave the hets more reason to hate them by appearing to "force" their sexuality down the throats of the hets. Victim becomes abuser and vice versa.

Ian said (March 4, 2009):

just cannot stand anymore the fact that Britney Spears ( and Pink and Christina A ) have live shows where the dancers have S&M masks on!!
Children from age 5 go to these shows. It is repulsive! And the shows are like sex shows....

It is the strangest thing, but i guess i know why they are trying to poisen our children..... i am going to have to be a prude with my two in regards to tv etc....
Even people in my church love all that..... it has slidden SO far that normal is not normal any more !

Dee said (March 4, 2009):

I just watched a recent Disney release of a kids' movie, "Beverly Hills Chihuahua", featuring Jamie Lee Curtis, and the voices of Drew Barrymore, Andy Garcia, and George Lopez. Cute flick, highly entertaining. But given the Disney connections with you-know-who, was I surprised it contained a whack of stuff that raised my hackles?

As I was watching I realized that a whole set of propaganda was being put forth for children's consumption. It portrays Mexican laborers as potential heroes, and tiny Mexican dogs equal to Doberman Pincers in heart and fortitude. It portrays Mexican police as extremely helpful to gringos. It portrays two male Mexicans, one canine and one human, as the ones who "get the girls" from Beverly Hills in the end. And the female chichuahua has a line that literally resounded with trance induction a la Erickson: "And I never even gave him a chance....."
In the end, the female leads, the chihuahua and the niece, become "better" for their relationship with the Mexican landscaper and his rescued dog.

And do we find this intriguing in view of the current situation with illegal immigrants from Mexico flooding across the US border in droves?

I mean, aside from that (!), it really was a cute flick, for a public relations commercial. And I'm sure that many Mexicans are both handsome and heroic, and that some people actually regard chihuahuas as a noble breed. However, I note that the immigration situation is not pretty, and this film goes a long way to present Mexicans in a highly positive light at a time when US jobs are disappearing, and Mexican illegals are appearing....

And I don't even want to think about the possibility (or the nature) of subliminals in the video.....

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