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Increasingly, Men See Women as "The Enemy"

July 1, 2015

25175-Stop-Youre-A-Whore.jpg"My physical desires command me to mate with women,
yet the women in this environment are clearly toxic (feminism, media, etc.)

Illuminati Feminism is having its desired effect:
Dividing the sexes by destroying the marriage ethos in women and provoking a backlash from men. Women are not the enemy.
Illuminati Jews & Freemasons have subverted them and Western society.

Makow comment
- I am a defender of heterosexual marriage and family. Before the Masonic Jewish (Illuminati) subversion of society, a woman's job was to be a wife and mother. Women used to love men and want to reproduce. Thus she made herself attractive to a man. Feminism convinced them to eschew this role and seek power instead of love. They have been deceived into engaging in sex without commitment. Now we are witnessing a backlash where many men are fed up with these women, who have forsaken the love and protection of family. They have been tricked into forsaking their biological role and are at risk of becoming biologically redundant. However, there is still a pool of women who seek male leadership to choose from. 

from June 8, 2014

Mike's Complaint, Women Want Kids Not Husbands, received a robust response from men:

Bill says, "Women are More trouble than they're Worth"

I agree with Mike in the UK. Porn does for me what real women never have. I was married to a hot Filipina for 11 years too; so I know what a good sex life is like. And I was a born-again Christian for 22 years too; so I know where all the anti-porn folks are coming from. In fact, the only reason I sought out a wife was in obedience to 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion." That was the worst decision of my life! The best decisions of my life were 1) getting a vasectomy and 2) divorcing my stress/drama/debt-generator wife. As good as the sex was, it was not worth the price I paid.

men-going-their-own-way-meme2.jpgI have discovered that MGTOW (men going their own way) is the path to peace and happiness. I live in Florida in a nice aircon condo. I take a 30-45 minute walk every day in the natural beauty that is my neighbourhood. I read a lot of articles online each day and interact with Facebook friends. I run my online machinery business. I take 1 or 2 vacations to Thailand or the Philippines each year. That is the only time I have sex. But it's all good. Because porn is always there for me when I get horny. It never says NO. It never shames me. It never threatens me. It demands nothing in return. It's free! It offers a different experience each and every time - at MY convenience. When I am done, it is done. I am in total control. What is not to like?

The detractors will say, "it's like looking at a magazine ad vs. eating a real steak." Not so! Having real sex with real women can be great, but is often boring. The effort men put into obtaining that sex is often ridiculously high. They also put themselves at risk. There are many "honey traps" out there. Men using Craig's list or dating sites are often robbed or even murdered. There are also life threatening STDs to avoid. The detractors will say, "you are looking for women in all the wrong places" OR "you just can't find quality women." Exactly - I can't. So I have the wisdom to admit it and enjoy a spot of porn on occasional. Same way I enjoy a spot of whiskey on occasion. It's not an addiction. It's a gift from God and meets my need. I partake with a grateful spirit.

The detractors point out that porn is produced and promoted by the Illuminati to further their Satanic agenda of depopulation, to spiritually weaken its consumers and for the money. Agreed. However, I'll bet these same people who are pursuing holiness are attending churches who have been infiltrated by feminism, political correctness and Zionism. I feel closer to God now than I did when I was attending church regularly, tithing, serving, witnessing, praying and reading my Bible every day. I no longer do any of those things. With the way men are targeted and abused in divorce court these days, I would revise 1 Corinthians 7:9 to read "But if they cannot control themselves, they should watch porn and masturbate, for it is better to jack off than to burn with passion."

On the subject of women wanting kids, not husbands, I agree. The New Unmarried Moms, and The Tipping Point When Marriage and Children Is No Longer a Package Deal

However, this article is more to the point of our discussion. Woman's Marriage/Man's Marriage: Two Different Worlds: "Women go into marriage for the marriage. Men go into marriage for the woman. For the woman, it's a combo, a package deal. You get the house, the stuff, the kids and the guy. I can't tell you how many men in my office complain that they feel they are last on the list, after the kids, her job, her mother, her sister, her friends and Zumba. She can get her needs met in a variety of ways and can have close, intimate relationships with any one of those people on that list, not only with him."

For most men, marriage is a bad deal. Better to buy a dog. The dog doesn't mind at all when you look at porn!

Mark says "learn Game.":

I've said it before and I'm saying it again: Men nowadays need Game, which is in the words of blogger Rollo Tomassi: "A set of behavioral modifications to life skills based on psychological & sociological principles to facilitate intersexual relations. "

Mike - from what you told, your problems might be: 1. You are targeting the wrong kind of women and are unable to recognize their given psychology correctly. Some are lost causes, but there are still enough girls out there who will gladly submit and be in a relationship with a masculine man. A man can learn to unravel the "feminine mystique" via knowledge of Game. 2. It is likely that you are attractive or good-looking, also have sexual prowess, but women don't feel a strong bond with you - all men with excellent Game have met plenty of women, who would love to be wifed up by them (so called Deep-Conversion Game).

In the old times it was enough to be a good provider to get a woman. Nowadays it takes that, plus being Game-aware and having manifested more Alpha characteristics.

More on this by more traditional marriage encouraging manosphere sites - all written by happily married guys who learnt Game:

I wish you would give Game more credit. Game is not evil. Pumping and dumping may be not so beneficial, but knowledge itself of female inborn psychology is not bad. I have now met plenty of women, who actually recognized their own destructive motivations when I pointed them out. Some even accepted them and are trying to readjust their lives. We men are actually simpler, more straightforward creatures, but women behave according to a different set of rules. The worst is that women are barely aware of it - and so are most men.

But I think that the Illuminati high-level psychologists likely knew that a long time ago and knew what would happen when women would be given those "freedoms" and be "empowered".

Will is on the verge of giving up:

It really seems that as a man living in western culture, like Mike I cannot help but feel like I am being backed into a corner. My physical desires command me to mate with women, yet the women in this environment are clearly toxic (feminism, media, etc.) Porn use has clearly been shown to cause neurological problems (reversible through quitting and physical exercise), and everywhere women dress in an extremely sexually provocative way constantly teasing you with their sexuality.

Unlike Mike, I have not had any women want me as a DNA provider, but I know that as soon as I finish my education (PhD in Neuroscience) and hit a stride in my career, women will just see me as a stable walking and talking ATM, whom they will gladly divorce and take resources from.

Importing women from more stable environments (i.e. overseas or religious women) into this one is an option, but women often are poisoned with feminism on entry and the same problem of them leaving and stripping you of resources occurs.

Not to mention that this toxic feminist virus is spreading around the world at a rapid rate. However, there is slim albeit risky chance for Mike to get the life he desires. Having been selected as a DNA provider in his 20's (I am assuming) it is clear that women are attracted to him on a more primal/basic level.

He could theoretically quit porn, channel his sexual energy into his career and gain social status. This way women should more easily flock to him and he can more easily have his pick. If he carefully is able to select a young woman from a stable family/religious background, his primal attractiveness combined with his newly increased social status hopefully should be enough to convince the woman to marry him and not to stray from the marriage.

As for myself, my 20's are almost over (turn 27 this month). I have been on many first dates (no sex) and not had a single second date. I am extremely physically fit (train at the gym 4 days a week). I have no problem talking to women or making them laugh but it is clear that I get put in the friend-zone and am not DNA provider material.

Taking into account my experiences with these women and the experiences of other provider type men/friends who are now going through painful and humiliating divorces/child support battles, it has become crystal clear to me that women on a primal/physical level are not attracted to me and only see me as a potential provider that they can easily discard once resources are attained thanks to no-fault divorce.

Personally, I have too much dignity to let that happen and I pray to God that He will help control my sexual desires so I can maintain what dignity I have left.

Art says, C'mon Men, have Some Fun:

So he's bored with women, okay, but here's a story from a man who's never bored with them. I'm entertained by them, although more than 13 years happily celibate. Without the pressure to fondle and penetrate body parts a whole new world opens to you. The fondling can happen later when you finally locate one worth the effort.

As a relatively new resident in a new city, and an avid ice skater, I come in contact with a plethora of very attractive women. I know so many now I struggle to remember all their names.

I have developed what I am calling a "feminist" test. It takes a bit of practice to employ properly because one must believably take on the role, jokingly, of a sexist, if only for a few moments. Timing is crucial of course. At some point in the conversation, work in something like this. "I think you'd look great behind an ironing board, or pushing a broom or mop". It's so over the top in modern society it's hard to keep a straight face. You WILL turn heads of women around you so be prepared.

One of two things will happen, the target woman will explode in visible anger and be beside herself (feminist), or she will have a suspicious look followed by a smiling relief knowing you can't possibly feel that way (real woman who may share some feminist ideals but isn't sure why). So much fun I tell you. Now who's in the driver seat?

Remaining friendly but never give any hint that this is all happening in order to score. She will be left wondering what is wrong with you. A man that "isn't trying to get in her pants"? Perplexing. Astounding. Attractive! Yes, you are now a one in a million, and I assure you they'll be back for more,

I'm holding out for just one woman that I can't remain celibate around. So far she hasn't appeared before my eyes. When she does though, I will be sure to return here and report.

C'mon men, turn this game around. BE the dominant force you were designed to be. No one has ever died from a lack of sex. Man up gentlemen, get out there and have some fun again.

NOTE:  If anyone is interested in temporarily swearing off sexual activity, the way a sweat lodge cleanses the mind and body, one thing must be done to be successful. Stop consuming pornography. It's a terrible addiction. It desensitizes men to female bodies to a point where a physical response to the very sight of one no longer cause erectile results.

Just as an alcoholic can swill a dozen beers without much of an affect, so goes porn addiction. If you were an alcoholic, would renting a room in a liquor store be a good idea? Just stop it, and stop it now. Intense demand drives the overwhelming supply, you have the ability to stop it cold. It's part of being a man, a free man.


First Comment from Christopher:

I wasn't planning on commenting on anything, but after reading yesterday's article and some comments from the past two days I just can't keep it to myself anymore.  These guys talking about they watch porn and jack off rather than deal with a woman?   They are mad.  Mike saying he can't find a woman who doesn't put out fast?  Either slow down or stop complaining.  Will and other guys scared that the ladies just want their money?  Grow some fucking balls!
The main problem with most of these stories is that these "men" are not in control.  Not in control of themselves, not in control of their women, and not in control of their dicks.  No wonder these evil feminist bitches want to rape, rob, and beat them.  They are sitting ducks, and this so-called "female empowerment" is turning women into predators.  It is not news to me that some girls just want men for there money.  There are girls who, when looking for a relationship, don't look for a man that they actually want to be with, but for a fool who they can use.  Easy solution: don't get involved with them and if you do, don't give them anything!  Yes, when you first meet a girl, it can be nice to buy her flowers or take her out to an expensive restaurant, but when they ask you to pay to get their hair done or buy them $400 shoes there should be no room for negotiation.  If you give in, things will only get worse.
We have all heard a million stories of men whose wives leave them and take everything, and I sympathize with them.  In this system it could happen to almost anybody.  The only solution is to find a wife who is actually a decent person, which is rare these days.  But no matter what you do, porn is no substitute for a woman.  Picking up sluts or  prostitutes, while not a great idea, makes more sense as you will at least get what you want.  If you are single and struggling to find a decent girl, you would be better off not watching porn at all as it will only frustrate you more and fill your mind with perverted images.  Or for you people that like to quote the bible, didn't Jesus say if your arm causes you to sin it is better to chop it off that have your whole body thrown into hell?
I can't lie, I like beautiful naked women.  But I have no interest in watching people have sex.  I am 30 years old and in my short time on earth I have (fortunately) never seen an erect penis.  At least not in real life, but yes I have seen it in porn.  Henry, you're right when you say porn is gay.

Scruples - the game of moral dillemas

Comments for "Increasingly, Men See Women as "The Enemy" "

Dan said (June 9, 2014):

And we have a winner! ART. He has attained "Enlightenment".

Chastity was a social value before the culture was subverted. For 80 years boys have been taught a lie: that how much of a man you are depends upon getting sex from women. A century ago it was absolutely normal for boys to mature into manhood BEFORE their first sexual experience. Sex WAS reserved for the honeymoon night. If you think that's bizarre, consider this: in 1914 your new bride was a virgin - or the marriage could be annulled at the man's request.

Men, if you persist in believing the lie that you're not a man unless you screwing women, you have forfeited the power of your birthright under Natural Law.
No matter how ignorant of anything else in life, every female knows this on some level. Any female knows by instinct whether you're "needy" or not. You think you can hide it under "moves" and "attitude", but if are looking for sex with any woman you're not properly in union with already, you're in the position of weakness. That's why "big strong" movie stars like Mel Gibson or Tom Cruise and the rest of them are ever made a laughing stock by the women they pursue.

There are only two reactions possible from women for a man who is led by his dick - total disgust, or psychic VAMPIRISM by female predators.

"She who wets your sexual pleasure also wields the knife". ~ Nevada Kerr, 'Abortion as a Sacred Rite'

Women aren't the enemy. Every OTHER woman is!

Mike comment on response said (June 9, 2014):

A coupla bits of advice from others there......"keep on searching" type thing...... That's just it. I don't have boundless energies for all of that. I honestly grew up,...raised by my think,believe & understand that IF I was a "Good Man".....No drink, No drugs, No smoking, gaining wisdom, have a sense of humor {that usually has most laughing} and would NEVER hit a woman {Though Bible tells me of the "Rule of Thumb" !} I basically am.....what I am TOLD society says Women demand.....but for ALL THE MONEY I should/supposed to have..... I am not taken seriously !!

As for the advice also about "which are Bad Girls and which are Good Girls".....I have not met one woman that dosn't put out extremely fast......dunno if that's my supposed "good looks" or just that that type of girl doesn't exist anymore.....

....and also when I go without sex for 2 years at a time....I DID have a problem refusing !

Not now.

As soon as it seems its going the "same old way"........headlong into pointlessness..........I can't even be bothered.

Keep up the good work Henry. {Its appreciated by all sane people.}

on said (June 9, 2014):

what about the degrading exploitation of the women in the porn "industry"? do those who imbibe not care?

S said (June 8, 2014):

I was following your posts on the porn topic. I definitely feel with Mike. The women here in the UK are pretty disgusting (not just here though!).

If one got the slightest set of standards it is easy to see the mess that they are. I think one thing that needs to be mentioned is that most of those women who are featured in porn are victims of abuse and don't do porn to entertain but to fill a vacuum (good example is that girl who killed herself after she was bullied when her school saw her in a porn flick.

I actually cried when I saw that story on your Twitter feed because that girl was so pretty and innocent, being a victim of a bad family background).

I am a victim of watching porn. I do it to get rid of my temptation. I agree it is better than to go out and getting dirty on the real deal with disgusting girls. I have moments where I think what God thinks of me watching his creation (woman) getting abused in porn and men (for example myself) getting their lust settled with them. I think it is a question of morality and it is wrong to pleasure oneself on the misery of others.

BUT I want to say that I feel that more women and society in general is coming back to their instincts, for example evidenced by the spike of women who want to be stay-at-home moms again to care for family and wanting family.

Things have to get really bad before they get better again. Of course all the destructive mentality has been engineered by the gangster satanists to destroy us, but as Abraham Lincoln said: You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time. I hope that things will turn around very soon because we are already in a pretty bad shape. Finding a decent women is difficult, but everyone has a chance of finding the proper person. My best friend used to tell me: You have to fail 20x before finding the right person.

Mariel said (June 8, 2014):

I really liked the concepts put forth by Edward on your site June 7.

When I met my second husband, in my thirties, I had "given up" on the idea of remarriage, but I wanted to have friends of both sexes,
so I went to a suburban version of the Unitarian Church which I thought would be less sexually charged than the one I'd been going to.
I had REALLY decided that sex was not a good idea because it was the primary thing men wanted at the other "church", and I had a
son to support and no time for these type of relationships.

The first time I went to the new "church" with this attitude, I met my next husband. I found him attractive at once, but I was not in the
sexual mood at all, so the relationship progressed slowly. He too had had a very bad first marriage, where the "church" had encouraged
his wife's "independence," which became serial adultery. We were just falling in love without sex being in the forefront at all. How old
fashioned! How great that was! We did the type of courting people used to do. We even met for lunch in the park on our lunch breaks
from work!

He became my best friend, eventually, and forty years of marriage ensued. Grief over losing my best friend is the terrible price one
pays for love, so there is no free lunch in this world.

I believe that men and women should both consider a non-sexual courtship as a good prelude to a good marriage. It's a trite concept,
perhaps, but I believe it. We have been sold a bill of goods, both men and women.

Al Thompson said (June 8, 2014):

"I live in Florida in a nice aircon condo. I take a 30-45 minute walk every day in the natural beauty that is my neighborhood. I read alot of articles online each day and interact with Facebook friends. I run my online machinery business. I take 1 or 2 vacations to Thailand or the Philippines each year. That is the only time I have sex. But it's all good. Because porn is always there for me when I get horny. It never says NO. It never shames me. It never threatens me. It demands nothing in return. It's free! It offers a different experience each and every time - at MY convenience. When I am done, it is done. I am in total control. What is not to like?"

Again, I hate to keep repeating myself, but the problem is the fornication. If one wants to remain single then that's his option, but to substitute porn for a loving relationship with a nice woman is like drinking the Kool Aid at a Jim Jones orientation meeting. With little to no moral values, this guy has already destroyed himself with his own stupidity. Nothing good comes from evil. And when the shit hits the proverbial fan, he'll have no one to blame but himself. Yes, feminism is a problem, but giving up on finding a nice woman is the goal of the new world order freaks. This guy has a false sense of security, and no he is not in total control. He knows what he's doing is wrong and his conscience will come to torment him.

The payback for him will be when he becomes an old man and he'll have no family for comfort. He'll be just another loser on the ash-heep of the new world order.

Jim said (June 8, 2014):

I learned that my first ex-wife will be getting $800 per month from my pension for the rest of her life. It's distressing and makes me loathe her all the more.

It's distressing because she's the one who wouldn't keep house, do the laundry or cook meals, even though she didn't have an outside job. So, I did it all.

She was a hypochondriac, she ran our budget into the ground, beat the crap out of me...twice, screwed around with other men, became terribly overweight and was involved in with lesbian. (I couldn't prove they had a sexual relationship but it's likely they did).

Then when she moved out of my house and in with her new boyfriend (taking the kids with her) I filed for divorce. When she was served the papers she came over to the house bawling her eyes out and said, "But you didn't even ask me to come back."

The disconnect was astounding. She truly couldn't understand why I would reject her. It was all a game to her. And she lost. But I did have to pay her spousal and child support for years.

I married a second time to a similar type of woman and divorced five years later.

I probably won't ever marry again. It's just not worth the risk.

I hate to see women as the enemy because I have two beautiful granddaughters who will someday be women. I would like to see them get married and raise a family. I hope that my son and daughter-in-law will raise them well.

So far, they are off to a pretty good start. They're enrolling the eldest in a private Christian school in the fall. She'll have a good chance of not being too indoctrinated by the feminist culture.

Anyways... based on my experience, I can certainly understand why men see women as the enemy.

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