One of my biggest life regrets
is having unrealistic expectations
The idealization of sex, women and
romantic love in our society
is characteristic of Satanism.
Why? Satanism actively promotes
false Gods, i.e. idolatry.
Cabalist Jews believe that perception is reality. They are reality inventors. Thus, they have taken control of the mass media and movies to shape perception. That's why politicians and media today lie unabashedly.
Their "reality" (i.e. denial of gender) does not correspond to God or nature. God is Truth. Truth is ultimate reality. They have inducted us into their cult, cabalist Judaism, which seeks to supplant God. (Satanic cults, Freemasonry etc., control & exploit their members by corrupting & making them sick.)
Overrated- Young Women, Romance & Lobster
Revised from Nov 24, 2011
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
I turned 67 last November. When I look back at the young women that enthralled me-- I realize now they were delusions. The ladies were not who I thought they were. I idealized them.
We are programmed by popular culture --especially movies and music -- to fulfill mental concepts whether or not they correspond to reality. We were programmed to worship movie stars -- "sex Goddesses." Romantic love is our ersatz religion. Sexual intercourse is the holy sacrament. Our pagan (i.e. Cabalistic, Masonic) "cult-ure" regards sex as a panacea.
Since young women are gatekeepers of the "Holely Grail," they're elevated to the status of goddesses. We fetishize them. They can do no wrong. Men are conditioned to seek their approval.
IT'S ALL IN THE MIND
At age 12, in 1961 I saw the movie Spartacus, directed by Stanley Kubrick. In one scene, the camera focuses on Kirk Douglas' face as Jean Simmons sheds her gown. His face is full of wonderment and awe, lighted by the mystical glow seeming to emanate from her naked body but actually from the fire. The scene made a profound impression on me, a boy just entering puberty.
Brainwashed! The human being lives in a world of his thought. Thought is easily influenced or controlled. Convince us we are chickens and we will cluck. Convince us that the female body is desirable or that sex is the best thing life has to offer, and we will chase that. It's all in the mind.
I chased women with the best of them. But now that testosterone has relaxed its grip, I am left scratching my head and wondering why? Women are just people, as boring as men or more so. Their bodies are ridiculous, or soon become so.
Paradoxically, female entitlement and male emasculation prevents successful pairing. This is not a coincidence. As long as men idealize women, they remain children. This is how the Illuminati promotes arrested development. They are taking male power by giving it to women who become their agents of subversion.
Clearly one of the Illuminati's problems with Islam is that women are not put on a pedestal. Quite the opposite. Islam, like Christianity are real religions.
Men would be far more successful if they thought of women as instruments. As First Mates to their Captains. I believe most women in their heart-of-hearts prefer this.
Thus, a man must define his goals and the role he wants a woman to play. Companion? Mother? Men, when you put a profile on a dating site, don't talk too much about yourself. Instead, describe what you are looking for.
Women want men to give them an honorable purpose. They don't want to be his purpose.
HOOK UP CULTURE
The current hook-up culture is bad for women. Their sex appeal is a function of their fertility which declines rapidly after 40. That's why women need to establish a loving marriage and family to provide love and security into old age.
Women used to earn love by loving husband and children. They were loved for what they did: love husband and children. A girlfriend once said to me, "I want to be used," and she didn't mean for sex. Feminism has convinced many women they don't need to give love, especially to men.
Eventually that leaves them high and dry, alone and bitter.
Sex is really about procreation. We are meant to marry, propagate and move on to other things. The Illuminati have arrested our development by sabotaging marriage. Sex has become a life-long obsession that has frozen society in an adolescent mold and poisoned all human relationships.
Don't misunderstand me. I advocate marriage and family. Part of my detachment is due to being happily married. My wife empowers me in many ways. But many young women today have been re-engineered to fear, imitate and challenge men. They have been lied to and betrayed by society.
A young male friend complained "how predatory are the girls he comes across - how they expect sex on the first meeting, and are only out for one-night-stands, and how he and his friends feel confused, as though their gender role has been usurped."
SZ wrote recently, "Most men lack the ability to see through the female masks. Most men are hopelessly romantic, and shut down any analysis of negative feedback from the supposed chosen woman. I don't know why, I always have been good at judging peopleÂ´s character...it is not a wonderful thing, to be able to know that something is wrong with a person, especially when you want to be with that person. But really, it is something that can wreck your life. And then we all blame the system, feminism and the universe. Yet, even before the crystallization of feminism, women were already taking advantage of guys."
If I were starting out again, I would focus on building my self-confidence. For men, this comes from recognition and reward we get from our work. I would look for a wife that wanted to be first mate on my ship, and offer her my love and loyalty in return. With a successful marriage, all other women become redundant and sex loses its mythic quality.
Sex without love is just masturbation. It is dehumanizing and degrading which is why Satanists promote it.
On the other hand, sex in the context of marriage can create a powerful bond that overcomes differences.
The mating instinct in young men is just as powerful as in women.That's why they need to seek only women who want marriage. Study their character through patient courtship. Avoid feminists, sluts and women who had bad relationships with their fathers. Look for a dependable helpmate/ companion rather than soul mate. (Souls are too mercurial.)
Love and sex shouldn't be your first priority. These add to life but our primary relationship is with God, who is the personal ideal we set for ourself. Henry David Thoreau said: "Every man is tasked to make his life, even in its details, worthy of the contemplation of his most elevated and critical hour."
God is represented by our soul. Our goal is to be in total possession of ourselves (true to our ideal self) always. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "A trust in yourself is the height of piety, not pride. It is unwillingness to learn from any but God Himself."